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OUTLINE:

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(00:00) – Introduction

(06:42) – Introverts

(24:42) – Small talk

(29:37) – Artistic expression

(42:03) – Sad music

(49:42) – Leonard Cohen

(1:00:34) – Public speaking

(1:07:50) – Podcasts

(1:15:25) – Famous Blue Raincoat by Leonard Cohen

(1:30:47) – Creativity and sadness

(1:39:03) – Dark moments

(1:47:06) – Parenting

(1:55:59) – Advice for young people

(1:59:10) – Meaning of life